Understanding Your Soul Contracts Within Relationships I believe we have two ways of engaging in our relationships; through love and though fear. I also believe that we want to have fully loving relationships free of fear. In pursuit of this dream of loving unconditionally, we experience many facets of relating usually without understanding why. When soul contracts are understood and the lessons they create we can move from fear into unconditional loving relationships. We will attract a different level of partner and we will stop the cycle of repeating the same relationships only with different people. A Soul Contract is an agreement made, prior to your birth, between your Soul and the primary people in your life, the individuals with whom you have shared major events. These agreements assist your Soul in experiencing the lessons it was meant to learn. Anyone who has struggled to bring love, peace, and happiness into their lives can benefit from a deeper understanding of their Soul Contract and the path their Soul has chosen. Doing so can help one release their sense of victimization and embrace an empowered, happier life. When we understand why we chose to engage in a lesson with someone we could then have a deeper understanding of the experience. From that place of deeper understanding we can release past blocks, beliefs and find forgiveness and freedom for others and ourselves. What we perceive as negative experiences with someone are usually the most growth producing experiences of our life.